I have always had a special affection for valentines—not
those five-dollar cards that require extra postage or the commercial
packages of kid’s cards with their tiny envelopes. Not even the
beautifully decorated heart-shaped boxes of candy, though I wouldn’t
turn any of them down.
No, my love of valentines goes way back
to a little rural schoolhouse where valentines were hand made with red,
pink and white construction paper. I can still smell the thick paste
and sticky glue we used to create those small heart-shaped messages for
our classmates. But our greatest masterpieces were the cards we made to
take home to our mothers. The teacher gave us delicate, white,
heart-shaped doilies to use with our construction paper valentines. Oh
my goodness, what beautiful cards were made in our country schoolroom.
We
folded, cut, pasted and came up with the most unique designs
imaginable. Some students were content to fold a sheet of construction
paper, draw a heart on the front and write “Happy Valentine’s Day” in
thick crayon. Others filled a red piece of paper with so many tiny white
hearts that it looked like snow. Then there were those creative
geniuses who drew hearts with lines coming from them as if they were
“beating” out the crayoned words, “I love you.” I, on the other hand,
loved the lacey look of a white doily on pink paper with a red heart in
the middle, scribbled with sweet sentiments. I’m sure my mother loved it
too.
As a young mother, I also gave my children creative license
to make their own valentines with much the same materials I used as a
child. However, my clever son, now a grown-up artist, always found ways
to surprise me. Things like little hearts that opened, revealing special
messages. He used colors, shapes, yarn, whatever he could find to make a
memorable card. And like my mother, I loved those precious creations
that smelled of Elmer’s glue and colored markers.
Today, I
receive hand-made valentines from my four-year-old and two-year-old
grandchildren. They have hearts of paper, felt, fabric and glitter along
with toddler and pre-school drawings. I immediately display them on my
refrigerator door for all to see, even if glitter sprinkles to the floor
below. They are treasures that warm this grandmother’s heart in the
dead of winter.
But there is still another valentine I enjoy.
Long ago, God slipped a special love note into my heart with the words
from a children’s song. “Jesus loves me, this I know. For the Bible
tells me so….” Today, I find many love notes in the Bible, beautiful
messages of hope, and treasure them in my heart.
Lately, my
heart has felt the icy blasts of illness, hospitalization of family
members, loneliness and more. I find myself in need of a little sunshine
so I bring to memory those love notes God wrote on my heart so long
ago. And just in case you too need a special valentine sentiment, take
these words God spoke in Jeremiah 31:3 to heart: “I have loved you with
an everlasting love; I have drawn you with loving kindness.” Now that,
my friend, is what I call a heavenly valentine!